After some thought I moved this topic posted by NewMom to the Family and Friends Forum where I believe it will get a better audience.
But it's a plea for help that many of us can help with, as indeed are many of the topics there, so PLEASE make the journey there and share your experiences and support.
Go confidently in the direction of your dreams! Live the life you've imagined. As you simplify your life, the laws of the universe will be simpler.
Henry David Thoreau