I think society is more tolerant of gay female sexuality, than any other. After all, alot of straight men think 2 chicks going at it is "HOT". If the situation were that of a gay male 19 year old and a 14 year old boy, I doubt they would refer to them as "boyfriends". They'd label him a predator.
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There's a quest for answers, An unquenchable thirst
In the darkest night, Rising like a spire
In the burning heart, The unmistakable fire"Survivor