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#436045 - 05/28/13 01:52 AM Re: Sigma's about telling people you were molested? [Re: little big man]
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Registered: 07/13/12
Posts: 901
Loc: Florida
I think Jude and Ed nailed a couple important points. In Al-Anon/ACoA I've disclosed what I've had to disclose for my recovery. That takes both personal courage and a group that's solid with the Traditions.

In short, principles over personalities...a hard one for some members to digest (lol...and a great meeting topic!). How did I get my sponsors? Because in the meetings they shared the stuff that was hard to share. Saying the same thing Jude said, in a different way.

What I've often come back to is how I frame a disclosure...how it relates to my program.

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#436087 - 05/28/13 02:27 PM Re: Sigma's about telling people you were molested? [Re: little big man]
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Registered: 06/15/10
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Loc: USA
My assumption when a disclosure doesn't go favorably it is generally because the person I have disclosed to is an "unrecovered" survivor guy and I have triggered them. You aren't responsible my friend to how others react to your truth!
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