just one more thing that is important to repeat here from Guidlines:
"we strongly recommend that you do not give out personal information or involve yourself with anyone you meet here by going off site until you have gotten to know them for at least three months based on communications on site."
Please be aware that some time is needed to get to know someone here and please try to follow these guidelines and avoid haring your e-mail or other contacts till some time pass. There is important reason why are things set up like that
Sorry Blacken we have hijacked your topic a little bit here