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#423832 - 01/31/13 02:24 AM Re: One step forward, two steps back... [Re: crazy gecko]
traveler Registered: 02/07/06 Posts: 2441 Loc: overseas	Gecko - this all sounds so hopeful i am very relieved to hear you working it out. you WILL get to "OK" and beyond! Lee _________________________ They have greatly oppressed me from my youth, but they have not gained the victory over me. Plowmen have plowed my back and made their furrows long. But the Lord is righteous; he has cut me free from the cords of the wicked. Psalm 129:2-4
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#423836 - 01/31/13 05:22 AM Re: One step forward, two steps back... [Re: crazy gecko]
peroperic2009 Moderator MaleSurvivor Registered: 10/09/11 Posts: 2458 Loc: South-East Europe	Hey Gecko, it is great to hear that you brought your girlfriend at your therapy and that you've felt better lately. Your girlfriend looks like she knows what she wants, I'm happy that she came no matter on your tries to sabotage it. Must say that I've learned a lot from you and sharing problems with others. Keep it up like that! (((Gecko))) _________________________ My story
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#423849 - 01/31/13 09:09 AM Re: One step forward, two steps back... [Re: crazy gecko]
cant_remember Member MaleSurvivor Registered: 02/26/05 Posts: 867	(((( Gecko )))) You're winning this game, brother. You're understanding your defense mechanisms and working to overcoming them. Understanding that your subconscious was trying to sabotage your relationship in order to keep you "safe" is a great step, and the fact that your girlfriend saw through this and continued coming to your T session into your "safe place" is a HUGE sign that you're in a good place right now. Congrats, brother. Proud of you. Team Rubber Band! Cant _________________________ "There is a Catskill eagle in some souls that can alike dive down into the blackest gorges, and soar out of them again and become invisible in the sunny spaces... even in his lowest swoop the mountain eagle is still higher than other birds upon the plain, even though they soar." -- from Moby-Dick
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#423941 - 02/01/13 12:13 AM Re: One step forward, two steps back... [Re: cant_remember]
crazy gecko Registered: 10/04/12 Posts: 309	Thanks everyone Yes, I'm lucky to have a woman who knows what she wants in my life. She was pretty hurt and confused by my behaviour before, but somehow she was still able to trust me enough to come with me. And I really think she understands better now. Originally Posted By: cant_remember Team Rubber Band! Cant LOL. Whatever works, I guess... _________________________ I guess what I'm trying to say Is whose life is it anyway because livin' Living is the best revenge You can play -- Def Leppard My Story, Part 2 My blog
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