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#435676 - 05/24/13 05:18 PM Re: food for thought [Re: nltsaved]
victor-victim Offline


Registered: 09/27/03
Posts: 697
Loc: Canada
very well written. nltsaved.

and it makes perfect sense.

all of what you say is based on bible scripture.
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a warrior must learn the art of healing

victim -> victor

End the Silence

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#436116 - 05/28/13 07:49 PM Re: food for thought [Re: victor-victim]
nltsaved Offline


Registered: 08/26/08
Posts: 734
Loc: Kc,Mo
Disclaimer

Be warned you may be inspired by what you read . you may get offended & if that is the case
let me apologize right now because that is not and will never be my intent. My post are meant for reflection & self examination. If you do not agree with my post or my faith that is fine everyone is at a different place in their life & also has the right to believe in what they want . I will not argue or debate i just want to share what i feel the holy spirit directs me to write. If you feel it is not for you than that is just fine but if it touches you and causes you to reflect and take inventory of your life that is also great . I also believe god gives us all we need to overcome our situations & circumstances .He gives us all we need to accomplish this . It is up to us to do the work. i always try to be honest & come with the truth and yes it hurts sometimes so brace yourself . if you can not handle it than stop now
and turn back. if you disagree with it that is fine feel free to make your own thread please do not read if
you do not take into consideration what this disclaimer explains . now it is on you . peace & blessings and may you be blessed and inspired to go to work




When Truth is Revealed
Embrace It
Do Not run from Truth but Except it
For Truth is to set one Free
By Denying its Freedom you Welcome
Chains and Bondage

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Ask Yourself
What is the Motivating Spirit behind your Actions
Where you go & why you go
What is the Motivating Force behind it
Take Inventory
Take Appropriate Measures to Ensure Growth
If Nothing is Changing ask your self WHY
Than Go to WORK

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Praise Begins with Your Walk
Not your lips
Your Walk will Give God more Praise
Than your words will Ever be able to do

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Hurting people hurt other people
Its just a Fact
when hurting people become healed
than and only than
Will the hurting Stop
This is when the cycle stops

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Integrity Is or it is Not
There is no in between
Integrity is a Lifestyle
You can talk about having Integrity all you want
But your Actions Will Decide the Matter

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Where there is hatred and bitterness
shall not Love come to infiltrate
To impart its healing inside and out
When we allow Love to come in
To dwell among us to live inside our hearts
It shall begin to root out hatred rage and bitterness
For one of the greatest gifts afforded to us is Love
Shall we deny Love only to decay in our pride
To blatantly obstruct and disregard the one true gift that mends all
The reward of allowing Love to overcome is revitalization of soul
Denial of such fortitude is destruction not only from within but also an outward manifestation that shall spread to one another's heart
So it shall be if Love is allowed to bring life from within and bring fourth an outward manifestation that spreads to one another's hearts
into the minds of our future
To hand down Love instead of the curse of hatred bitterness and rage to break the cycle
I tell you Love is the only thing that has the Power to do such a thing

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One will find Peace in being Obedient to Christ
Where Obedience is lacking there will be no peace
True peace comes from Being Obedient to the Father
Not Ignoring what The Spirit whispers to your heart
Not Ignoring what The Spirit whispers in your ear
Being Obedient is so Freeing otherwise there is Only Bondage

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When focus is on your problems instead of Christ
Your problems will be your God
When one comes into agreement with Christ to Lead you through
Your problems than they become mere Exercise to Strengthen you
For the walk to come
Walk With Christ Not away from Him when trials arise

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People treat you like an outcast when you live for Christ
Walking the walk is hard and even harder when people you love treat you like an outcast
All because you choose to break terrible family cycles Family members
do not understand that breaking these unhealthy cycles
is more important than being around them
if necessary
At the end of the day I can live with it
because my children will not look back at me
and have to wonder why I chose chaos instead of them
They will know and understand
I chose them and that Braking the cycle was more important

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Living a life for self IS Destructive
Living a life For Christ is Selfless

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Living in this world apart from knowing Christ
Is like walking around this planet blind
One can Not See the things of God
For the eyes have Not been opened
The carnal mind can Not even begin to fathom
God & His Infinitely Divine Nature
For even the Spirituality Awakened have a hard enough time
Trying to fathom His Majesty

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What if God tried to find time for us?
If God is not Priority
Than How can He be God in your life?
The answer is He is Not God in your life
He is an accessory
Make No mistake He will NOT entertain this role
In ones life
He wants to Be Lord of Your life NOT an accessory

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Keeping it Real means taking a long hard Look at your life
Taking self Inventory of the things that are Not working
Than Working Tirelessly to Remove these Obstacles
If Not you are left with Denial & self Deception
This is a Realm you can Stay trapped in when you
Are Not keeping it Real at All cost
You are worth it DO the WORK

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Live in Reality not one Conjured up by a Phony Facade
A Fake wall built to Hide behind
Instead be Courageous & Shatter the wall of Deceit
Than you can Be who
God created YOU to be
and that is UNIQUE one of a Kind

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By Continuing on the Wide road
Which Many travel the path Known as self
You will Struggle with & in self
Taking the narrow road the path Few travel
The Road that Leads the opposite direction of self
There will be a struggle but it will be one Worthy of the struggle
The other one Not so much there is Nothing worthy to be had
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n-uYCAfpxrY
TRIGGER WARNING
Video of me telling my story
you are not alone never were
WRITTEN FORM
http://www.malesurvivor.org/board/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=339159#Post339159
Why i hate Religion but love Jesus
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1IAhDGYlpqY

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#438533 - Yesterday at 04:33 AM Re: food for thought [Re: nltsaved]
nltsaved Offline


Registered: 08/26/08
Posts: 734
Loc: Kc,Mo
Disclaimer

Be warned you may be inspired by what you read . you may get offended & if that is the case
let me apologize right now because that is not and will never be my intent. My post are meant for reflection & self examination. If you do not agree with my post or my faith that is fine everyone is at a different place in their life & also has the right to believe in what they want . I will not argue or debate i just want to share what i feel the holy spirit directs me to write. If you feel it is not for you than that is just fine but if it touches you and causes you to reflect and take inventory of your life that is also great . I also believe god gives us all we need to overcome our situations & circumstances .He gives us all we need to accomplish this . It is up to us to do the work. i always try to be honest & come with the truth and yes it hurts sometimes so brace yourself . if you can not handle it than stop now
and turn back. if you disagree with it that is fine feel free to make your own thread please do not read if
you do not take into consideration what this disclaimer explains . now it is on you . peace & blessings and may you be blessed and inspired to go to work



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The way a person talks
Says A lot about the Character of a person
There is no need to stand in judgement
For their words condemn themselves

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When people can not handle the Truth
They blame every one and everything around them
Never having to do Self Inventory
Generally people that can not handle the Truth
Are WEAK because they Refuse to look At themselves as the Problem
Always shifting the blame

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My God is Bigger than Any Situation or Circumstance
No Weapon Formed against me shall prosper
IF God is For me Who or What could Ever Be Against me
He that is IN ME is bigger than he that is in and of The World

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Its sad some people have to learn the hard way
Whats even sadder is there is no need to
all one needs to do is look at the people that have gone before them & use common sense

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To the Real Fathers out there
You know who you are
Because no one has to tell you that you are a Good Father
Cause your Actions Prove it day in & day out
To the others Unfortunately your Actions Prove it to
STEP YOUR GAME UP

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Being a Father is a Privilege & an Honor
To many do not hold this position in high enough regard
For those who do Not your children will hold you in Contempt
You are still held Accountable for Your Lack of Responsibility

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As a Christian
Make no mistake
It is The Spirit Within You
That will draw others to Christ
Apart from Christ You can do
NOTHING
So that it may be Christ who Receives His Rightful Do

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From the flesh you will reap bondage enslavement to your lustful cravings with an insatiable thirst for more
From The Spirit you shall reap
The key to the shackles that will Release you from your flesh
And you shall drink from the cup of The Everlasting where your thirst
Will indeed be quenched

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Wisdom is Enabled by
God
For what do any of
us have that has not been Given
We are to use this Wisdom
To Glorify God Not self

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The world has run a muck
The Godly Family Unit
The Adversary is winning
Children spend more time with others
Than they do with their own parents
or should i say parent for the most part now a days


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People will Never be able to get to where they need to be
with Unforgiveness in their heart
There are those who will rant and rave about they have the "right" to hold on to their bitterness and hatred
Well that is all fine and dandy
But one needs to realize the FACT
that they will Not Heal or Live the life they could have
If they would Forgive
The other person has gone on with their lives and could care less about whether they are forgiven or not
The only one SUFFERING is the one with Unforgiveness

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Instead of Retreating from your Own Denial
Stand and Face the Source of Your problem
Take Responsibility
Become Accountable
Then OVERCOME

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The path of Righteousness is Only found through Obedience
For no such path shall be found through disobedience
For the Righteous path is narrow yet Leads to Life
The wide path of selfishness leads Only to death

obedience is the path of righteousness

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The problem is with self
One Must Submit to God ,allow the Holy Spirit to work in their life
Be Submitted to The Will of God and then things will fall into place
Seek ye first The Kingdom of God and His Righteousness and all of these other things will be Added unto you
Not seek YOU first and your own Little Kingdom and your own Worldliness & Stupidity will be added unto you

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Ask yourself why is it You are the Only one
That can have a bad day & you Expect Grace?
When someone else is having a bad day
They are a bleepity bleep bleep
And can pretty much count on
NOT receiving ANY Grace what so ever from You

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If you have tried Everything to satisfy yourself
And still keep coming up Empty
The void your trying to fill can only be FILLED by
JESUS CHRIST who died so you can Live
and Live life Abundant
Stop pursuing all the worldly things that have Empty promises
Pursue Jesus and He Promises Never to leave you empty

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You know when you are Hiding something
It is Not of God
Otherwise why are you hiding it?
Because in the end your only prolonging
Judgment anyway
The longer the charades go on
The Deeper the Consequences

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You know when God puts the Relationship together
You do not have to hide it
Because God will be the center of it
And who would want to Hide that ?
Only the Guilty
Expect Heartbreak Disaster & Chaos

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To walk In The Spirit
Is to Walk Divinely before men & woman
To walk in self is to lead them
Astray

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We are to Train ourselves to be Godly
Without Discipline we Will in Fact Fail
There Must be an eager Desire within to not only want better
But the action to Follow through with Change
How bad do You want it? Time will Indeed tell
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The difference between people who make it & the people that do Not
Can be chalked up to Discipline
Training setting their mind as to Not be defeated by Any one or Anything
The one who fails has Plenty of Excuses & reasons Why they did Not Succeed
It All boils down to The Work
Put In the Work & reap the benefits of Successfully Overcoming
Don't do the Work & you reap Only Disappointment & failure and Deservedly so
Either way it falls on YOU

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Those who are Not Willing to Except
Truth
You will Never be able to Grow into the person God intended you to be
Truth Must be Utilized in Your life in order to Grow
If Not Only Denial & Stagnation is Prevalent


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Come to the conclusion
That You must Continue to Grow
In your life or consider the Alturnitive
Staying the Same
This should Not be Optional

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Look at the order of things in your life
Decide what needs to Go & what Needs to Stay
Than Work tirelessly to Change
If not Expect More of the same

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Those who put relationships together themselves
Will Always be out of Divine order
The relationship God brings together
although there will be troubles
He will Sustain It
When people put themselves together Expect Disaster & Chaos

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Why settle for ordinary
Walking in self
When you can be Extraordinary
Walking with Christ

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Do Not Allow chaos to Infiltrate
You peace
This is a Choice
You can Allow chaos to reign
Or you can take Dominion over
Chaos & give it No rule in your life

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Those who are LAzy it is Quite Evident
They have Nothing to show but their Lack of Effort
There is Nothing to gain but Contempt from others
For having to pick up the slack

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The path of self leads to pain & sorrow
Eventually you must Realize
Leading yourself to your own self indulgences
Will end in chains
To be lead by The Spirit leads Only to Freedoms from CERTAIN Bondage

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Keep your priorities In
Divine order & you shall enjoy Peace
You know when your out of Divine order when there is Chaos
Be quick to Adjust or be Consumed

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Do NOT let fear take over
Instead YOU
Take Over the fear
Consume it
Over take it & Overthrow fear
Fear has NO place in your life
Unless YOU Allow it

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If God is Not your First Love than whatever
IS
That is your Idol
People Things or What ever it is you Think you need
in order to Be happy
Examine this Carefully

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We all have choices
You can wallow in your own guilt and shame of the past
You can wallow in your self pity
or you can
CHANGE

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God will take you Through something
In order to Make you & Mold you Into Something
Stop Complaining & be Willing to Go through
What God wants to Take you Through

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Stop living In fear and take your life back
You will Never get to where YOU Need to be by not living the Uncomfortable Truth

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When you are
Persistent
Consistent
& Committed to the things of God
He will Do what He Says He will Do
He will keep His Promises He has to
The Results are In Fact
UNDENIABLY Displayed in Your Life

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If You are Not Willing to put in the WORK
Than Stop Expecting
The Benefits of those that DO

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What is your God ? Who is your God ?
is it the God of the bible ?
is it the God of Facebook?
the God of work , cars,games,gambling,
sex,pornography,?
Is It the God you have MADE up in your Mind to Justify
What is your God
WHO IS YOUR GOD ???

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_________________________
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n-uYCAfpxrY
TRIGGER WARNING
Video of me telling my story
you are not alone never were
WRITTEN FORM
http://www.malesurvivor.org/board/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=339159#Post339159
Why i hate Religion but love Jesus
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1IAhDGYlpqY

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