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#84853 - 12/07/06 04:28 PM Boy says he was forced to sleep in bathtub for 81 days
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Sick Bastards!

Get them a nice small cage to live in!

2 'caged' children testify about alleged abuses
Boy says he was forced to sleep in bathtub for 81 days
Michael and Sheren Gravelle


By JIM SIELICKI
BLADE STAFF WRITER

NORWALK, Ohio - Two of the 11 adopted children removed from the home of Michael and Sheren Gravelle, who are on trial for child abuse, testified yesterday about their life in a house of punishment and humiliation.

A 14-year-old boy testified that he was forced to sleep in a bathtub for 81 days with two sheets and sometimes a blanket. He said he was forced to stay in the tub because of his bed-wetting problem.

He testified that another time he was punished by being forced to stay in "his box" for a month and a half, except when he had to use the bathroom.

"Mine was really small. In the summertime it was really hot in there. We said we liked them because it made us safe. But we really didn't like them. We said it to make them [the Gravelles] happy," the boy testified.
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• A boy who had been adopted by the couple on trial for caging some of their children testified he did not like the enclosure that he slept in because it was small and hot.

While in the wire-and-wooden cage built by the Gravelles he was ordered to write out the Book of Deuteronomy in The Bible in long-hand.

Huron County Prosecutor Russ Leffler asked the boy if that was his favorite book in the Bible.

"No, it was just the longest book in the Bible," the boy testified.

His sister, who took the stand in the afternoon, corroborated his testimony. The children slept upstairs. The only bathroom among the three in the house that they were permitted to use was downstairs.

Both children were questioned about the discipline the

Gravelles meted out.

The boy said his other sister, who suffered from Down Syndrome, was punished by having her head shoved in a toilet, or having a sock placed in her mouth if it was hanging open. That form of punishment was not restricted to the handicapped girl, the two teens said. Some children were taken outside and hosed off in all types of weather.

They are the first two Gravelle children to testify in the criminal trial who were living in the home when authorities removed them a year ago. The court has ordered their identities not to be made public. They described wireless alarms placed on the doors of the cages and bedrooms the Gravelles used to warn them if the children tried to leave during the night.

Over objections of the defense attorneys, Prosecutor Russ Leffler showed the boy an alarm similar to the ones found in the home and triggered the shrill sound for 15 seconds to demonstrate its volume.

"Did it wake you up from a sound sleep?" Mr. Leffler asked. "Yes," the boy replied.

The Gravelles contend the alarms and cages were necessary to prevent the children from wandering or going to the kitchen during the night for something to eat. The children said they were told the cages were made for their safety.

Shortly before the children were removed from the homes, the Gravelles had stopped using the alarm on the boy's cage because of improvements in his behavior. Other changes were promised, he said. "They said once you stop wetting the bed, you can get your mattress back," he said on cross-examination by defense lawyer Kenneth Myers.

The tall, lanky boy, testifying in a monotone but with clear answers, said when he was forced to live in the children's sole bathroom, he had to step out when the other children wanted to use the toilet or take a bath. He then had to dry the tub so he could sleep in it, he said.

When the children were not sent to their rooms early as punishment, they had to be in bed by 7 p.m., he said.

While in the wire-and-wooden cage he was ordered to write out the Book of Deuteronomy in the Bible in long-hand. He said he can't recall why he was being punished. He said it took him about a month and a half and he had to remain in his box while copying the text.

Both children testified that most of the children did not have mattresses and blankets.

The boy told the jury the pillows were taken away because the children learned how to muffle the sound of the alarms so they could leave their cages.

Later, under cross-examination by defense attorney Richard Drucker, the girl admitted that she told investigators in 2005 that the blankets and mattresses were removed because the children were "shredding" them.

Mr. Drucker questioned her credibility by using statements she had given to sheriff's deputies and child welfare officials in which she said bedding was provided to the boys, but was taken away after they destroyed it.

The girl repeatedly told Mr. Drucker she did not recall making those statements, but on questioning, said she did not deny making them, either.

The defense attorney contrasted the statements she gave to investigators with her testimony given in response to the prosecutor's questions yesterday. "The truth is relative to what you want for yourself, isn't it," Mr. Drucker asked.

Earlier, the girl said she agreed with a question posed by Mr. Myers as to whether she was angry with the Gravelles.

"Just about them getting away with stuff they shouldn't get away with," she replied.

Earlier, two foster parents testified about some of the difficulties the children had adjusting initially, although most of them began to fit in well with their new families. Many of the children have special needs. Some were born with addictions to drugs and one child is HIV positive.

Debbie Nottke is the foster parent for the boy who testified yesterday. She testified that "he's an awesome child" who excels in school and in sports.

In addition, she kept two other Gravelle children, both of whom were removed by the county Department of Job and Family Services.

One boy was removed to be reunited with another sibling, although Mrs. Nottke said she was upset with the agency because they never told her upfront of those plans.

"We were hurt that they were planning to move him without telling us," she said. "He was doing well … and they ruined it."

The second boy was sent to another foster home because the boy found an nonworking cigarette lighter and attempted to use it to set a piece of paper on fire in his room.

Another foster parent testified about the two siblings she received.

Anita Thorne described the girl as "someone who wanted to be loved. She wanted to be cuddled."

But Mrs. Thorne asked the agency to remove the girl earlier this month after the girl, who was riding in the back seat, struck her on the head while driving. She also reported an incident in which the girl said a boy at school had "touched her inappropriately."

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#84854 - 12/08/06 01:00 PM Re: Boy says he was forced to sleep in bathtub for 81 days
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One more to my list of reasons that the system doesn't work. child abuse is a crime and they should be punished or maybe locked in a cage. maybe they should have to sleep in a wet bathtub. just makes me sick! light and luv, sis


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#84855 - 12/08/06 01:18 PM Re: Boy says he was forced to sleep in bathtub for 81 days
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I will be glad to buy a few tons of ice to bed them in

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#84856 - 12/09/06 02:05 PM Re: Boy says he was forced to sleep in bathtub for 81 days
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LOL!!! sis


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#84857 - 12/23/06 02:38 AM Re: Boy says he was forced to sleep in bathtub for 81 days
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#84858 - 12/23/06 01:45 PM Re: Boy says he was forced to sleep in bathtub for 81 days
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It is alarming that social workers thought they were doing good.

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During the trial, their defense included testimony from a social worker and others who said they never witnessed abuse and said the children's behavior improved because of the cages, which were painted bright blues and reds.
I guess they were spoilt for choice on color!

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One Gravelle child testified he was forced to live in a bathroom for 81 days, sleeping in a bathtub because of a bed-wetting problem. The Gravelles' attorneys denied those charges, saying the boy exaggerated the length of his bathroom stay, and an expert for the defense testified that the technique helped the boy.
The expert probably worked at Guantanamo Bay!

I hope they get the full sentence, not much, but they will suffer,

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