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#83299 - 12/25/05 10:21 PM Lost for words
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Two boys walking in abandon on what should be the brightest day of their year, and this happens.

I hope this kid makes it, read it here

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#83300 - 12/26/05 01:52 AM Re: Lost for words
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Shit! Tears here.

John

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#83301 - 12/26/05 09:46 AM Re: Lost for words
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On Christmas Eve no less. What a bastard.

Larry

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As I go walking my freedom highway.
Nobody living can make me turn back:
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#83302 - 12/30/05 12:41 PM Re: Lost for words
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Just an update, they caught the bastard, read it here

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#83303 - 12/30/05 12:52 PM Re: Lost for words
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Ste,

Thanks for the update. The report ends with this and it really affected me:

Quote:
Police said he was "badly traumatised" by the attack.
Unfortunately we all know what that means.

Larry

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#83304 - 12/30/05 01:00 PM Re: Lost for words
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Larry,

yes we do, but apparently the authorities do not.

I hope he does not fall through the net and be left to figure it out.

Anyhow, at least they caught the perp sooner, rather than not at all, at least he cannot get other innocents,

ste

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#83305 - 12/30/05 07:58 PM Re: Lost for words
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"I hope he does not fall through the net and be left to figure it out".

That is why this Westminster debate is so important, get on to your MP now that goes for all of us in the UK

Kirk


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#83306 - 12/31/05 10:27 PM Re: Lost for words
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Here is an update on the above case, The charges are very serious, and amount to something similar to attempted murder.

Even the lesser charge of attempted rape carries a long term in prison.

I hope these boys do not have to testify in this case.

My guess is, that this beast will be detained for her Majestys' pleasure, which means life.

Read the story so far here

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#83309 - 01/02/06 05:23 PM Re: Lost for words
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Hey JZ,

cops everywhere and anywhere in this country make me

Social services too.
I know just how uncaring cops can be, I have had dealings with them.

You can PM me anytime if you want to discuss how evil they are.

I do feel for both these boys, and just hope their parents can get them help, as social services will not be bothered \:\(

ste

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#83310 - 01/02/06 05:47 PM Re: Lost for words
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I can really understand the pain JZ and Ste feel at present, fortunately the police that dealt with my accusations were brilliant, that doesnt take away from the fact that some police authorities need educating as does some Social Services departments. Change takes time and pressure. Once again I refer you back to the Westminster debate. We really need to show the politicians that we have had enough of being an unheard of minority that numbers thousands perhaps hundereds of thousands and that is one hell of a lot of votes. Hassle your local counsellors and local Members of Parliament let them see we are not going to go away untill some change is instigated.

I really do feel for the two boys and their parents as there will be no professional support for them throughout the investigation and trial. My self and wife tried to seek out some professional support prior to the trials I was involved with, I was warned off this by the police.

Why?

Because it would have made the defence barristers job much easier to discredit me by way of suggesting implanted false memories .... This cannot be right legally or morally.

Victim Support are completely out of their depth when it comes to communicating with survivors of CSA and they have no real contacts within the field, this too needs to be got over to the powers that be especially the need to advertise the Victim Liason Service (VLS), which I had never heard of until recently, Victim Support did not know they existed neither did Surrey Police and the crazy thing is the local (to Surrey Police) VLS is based in Woking about 12 miles away from Surrey police headquaters at Guildford.

http://www.surreyprobation.org.uk/victim_liason.pdf

Check out your local probation service to see if they have links nearby to you for the Victim Liason Service.

Lets grab this bull by the horns and really swing it about a bit and cause it some real grief.

Kirk


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