What we usually do if we have something that may be triggering is to write POSSIBLE TRIGGER at the top of it. Then if a person feels that do not want to place themselves in a state of reading something that could harm them they won't.
You can do the same thing in the Male Survivor forum. It is sad, but apparently only a few people look in on the poetry forum--at least such is what they sometimes write.
You may want to put the trigger warning on your poems, and put out some and see how it goes.
PS Thanks for being here and offering to post material--we learn from and get support from each other.
If we do not live what we believe, then we will begin to believe what we live.