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#80254 - 05/27/06 03:59 AM Re: You Bastard
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anger is good, abuse is hard to get over, years after writing this poem it was used in therapy where the therapist read the poem loudly while I hit pillows with a tennis racquet till I stopped and then started crying.

I think this poem help me tremendously, and I am glad I wrote it. It sums up 18 people hurting me including the father figure that hurt me for several years.

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#80255 - 05/27/06 05:28 AM Re: You Bastard
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MJ,

Thanks for writing this poem. Yes anger is good.

Fuck all of those bastards. They will get theirs in the end.

H.I

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#80256 - 05/27/06 05:53 AM Re: You Bastard
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you are right healing inside,

fuck them all,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

and to think I had a hard time having the F word printed in a poem 13 times in a book with my name on it------------------needless to say I got over that and it was printed in the book.

you guy are great and so am I

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#80257 - 08/18/06 03:28 AM Re: You Bastard
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anger can be good as long as noone gets hurt physically,,,,,,,,I am hoping guilt will be felt by most people who hurt others.

It is not ok to hurt because we were hurt.

things are not always cut and dry, and it is not easy to learn to forgive others.

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#80258 - 10/18/06 02:34 AM Re: You Bastard
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anger is not the enemy, only if you want it to get the best of you. Use anger to benifit yourself not to damage others or there property.

Tennis is a good way to get out some anger. Boxing too.

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#80259 - 10/18/06 02:39 AM Re: You Bastard
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good poem mj thanks for telling me about it steve


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#80260 - 10/19/06 02:19 AM Re: You Bastard
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glad you liked it steve

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#80261 - 11/06/06 02:16 AM Re: You Bastard
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really intense.
But i guess letting the anger out by writing is a good way.

Alexander

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#80262 - 11/06/06 02:52 AM Re: You Bastard
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my anger is the only thing that bastard gave me that i choose to keep . it just kinda simmers then out of the blue it rises up and i'll think 'that dirty no good son of a bitch !'when my brain told me to give up my anger wouldnt let me .i was too fucking pissed to die .

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#80263 - 11/06/06 03:31 AM Re: You Bastard
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alex and shadowkid this is the poem that healed me the most.

I am glad you two are here, and hope u get rid of some of that anger in good ways

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