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#77964 - 10/07/05 03:49 PM blessed individuals in each faith - 'haters' don't read this
markgreyblue Offline

Registered: 12/19/03
Posts: 5400
Loc: Pasadena, CA
- i have found something precious -

very much more than any rule or word -
can say -

i have found self acceptance in who
and what i am -

i am a gay man - and I hear us each of us defending this and trying to understand it -

i was baptised in a faith that emphasizes the mystery of love -

i also studied judaism - and catholicism
as these amongst my closest neighbors
and school mates -

i also then was around presbyterians too -
and buddhists -

i must say there I have known there are good people of all faiths - and at times i have lost that idea -
i did not know why and could not make sense of it

even muslims - a man named sayed i met today - very common sense commonly decent -
worked for a major american firm - and we talked for 1.5 hours - though their public image is tarnished to put it slightly -

I came away from all this today -
thinking on one thing too perhaps the basis of
my confusion and more to the crux of behavior
universally - that is what it is -

feeling the pain of the pressure of explaining it all -

and perhaps there is a need to hate others for some people
and hate themselves too -

the beauty i found is in self acceptance **

that some things are just -

just are -

we are beautiful unique creations

the humanity is in the acceptance of
our uniqueness -
that is where the strength
and power is too

the perfection in imperfection

the humanity

the ability to love
and accept oneself -
and others

my first boy friend said to me -

perhaps some people were meant for no purpose!!!

in explaining his sexuality

i know that I have had to say -
that 'this is what works for me' - in a kind of unarticulated way - 'this is what i want' -

and then the really beautiful thing-

my friend's nephew such
a lovely free man of today


to his aunt - a very loving lady -

i just am attracted more
and feel more comfortable -

he is 20 or so and said
i feel i didn't get the love and support
i guess i needed
when i grew up
and now i know that this
is how I love my life is best - I am happy and daily and loving
dating at last -

so that's it for me -

peace be with you all -


" not look outside yourself for the leader."
-wisdom of the hopi elders

"...the sign of a true leader is service..." - anonymous

#77965 - 10/08/05 12:06 AM Re: blessed individuals in each faith - 'haters' don't read this
Sinking Offline

Registered: 09/26/03
Posts: 577
Loc: Took my ball and went home.
And Peace to you too Mark. Beautifully said.


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