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#77801 - 07/20/05 02:42 PM Peace
Curtis St. John Offline
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Registered: 01/20/04
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Loc: Westchester, N.Y.
We cannot perceive our own faults,
And continually examine the faults of others instead.

How can we all be harmonious with one another?

~ Milarepa


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#77802 - 07/20/05 08:41 PM Re: Peace
Mike Church Offline
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Registered: 01/23/03
Posts: 3439
Loc: Toronto, Canada
Curtis that is a very good question. It is so much easier to be critical outwards. I think it is a byproduct of SA and could have something to do with the inner rage we have.

And why is it that we can be so supportive of others and give suggestions for working at being whole and yet we seem to be determined to ignore those same things for ourselves.

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Mikey

IT REALLY IS OK TO STUMBLE. NONE OF US ARE PERFECT.

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#77803 - 07/23/05 05:32 AM Re: Peace
Michael Offline
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Registered: 12/05/04
Posts: 92
Loc: Claremore, Oklahoma
Because we feel that we are not worthy FOR ourselves. We can see the worthiness in others, but within us. Through our own faults, we can see what others need to do, knowing it is also what we need to do.

Mine is that I have seen all the hurt I brought to others and feel like I really should be alone for the rest of my life to keep from contaminating anyone else with my filth.

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"Even if you're on the right track, you'll get run over if you just sit there." - Will Rogers

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