For the encouragement and for the title of the book.
I'm actually quite a way through the book. My big stumbling block was writting about the abuse, however I have been writing about it today. It was obviously upsetting but it showed the hard work during two years of therapy was time well spent.
The only other drawback my ex girlfriend used to read it, check things out, get me to explain things if she didn't understand etc. I suppose she was my editor. So I'm searching for a new one. Editor and girlfriend that is.