Newest Members
journey4two, VASurvivor, jayceemac, rwolf, FindingNemo
12328 Registered Users
Today's Birthdays
Alicia (55), bubblytam (56), crazydragon (39), JGag78 (36), kris82 (32), Shin (28)
Who's Online
4 registered (Obi, highflight, 2 invisible), 16 Guests and 4 Spiders online.
Key: Admin, Global Mod, Mod
Forum Stats
12328 Members
74 Forums
63397 Topics
443261 Posts

Max Online: 418 @ 07/02/12 07:29 AM
Twitter
Page 1 of 2 1 2 >
Topic Options
#74282 - 02/08/01 03:44 PM SOME BOOKS THAT YOU MAY FIND TO YOUR LIKING.
Gadzook Offline
Member

Registered: 12/10/00
Posts: 72
Loc: Papillion, NEBRASKA (USA)
Although I have not read every single one of these books as of yet - they may be of some help or use for all people....

1. BROKEN BOYS/MENDING MEN: Recovery from Childhood Sexual Abuse. Gruban-Black, S. 1997 Ivy Books.
2. Male on Male Rape: The Hidden Toll of Stigma and Shame. Scarce, M 1997 Insight Books.
3. Recovery: How to Survive Sexual Assault for Women, Men, Teens, and their Friends and Families. Benedict H., & Brison, S. 1994 Columbia University Press.
4. Victims No Longer: Men Recovering from Incest and Other Sexual Child Abuse. Lew, M. & Bass, E. 1990 Harper Collins
5. If He Is Raped: A Guidebook for partners, Spouses and Friends. McEnoy,A. & Brookings, J. 1999 Learning Publications.
6. The Courage to Heal. Bass, E. 1994 Harperperennial Library.
Hope you will find some of these books rewarding and helpful.
Gadzook (dave)




[This message has been edited by Gadzook (edited 02-09-2001).]

_________________________
~Gadzook

Top
#74283 - 02/08/01 07:29 PM Re: SOME BOOKS THAT YOU MAY FIND TO YOUR LIKING.
Neil Offline
Member

Registered: 10/17/00
Posts: 81
Loc: Millersville, MD, USA
I have read "Victims No Longer". It's a great book. It was actually the first book I read about abuse. There's a lot of good stuff in there. It helps survivors understand more about their feelings and actions. I also read the 2nd book by Mike Lew, "Leaping Upon The Mountains". It's a very good book but probably better for men in later stages of recovery.


Top
#74284 - 02/08/01 07:32 PM Re: SOME BOOKS THAT YOU MAY FIND TO YOUR LIKING.
Neil Offline
Member

Registered: 10/17/00
Posts: 81
Loc: Millersville, MD, USA
I have read "Victims No Longer". It's a great book. It was actually the first book I read about abuse. There's a lot of good stuff in there. It helps survivors understand more about their feelings and actions. I also read the 2nd book by Mike Lew, "Leaping Upon The Mountains". It's a very good book but probably better for men in later stages of recovery.


Top
#74285 - 02/09/01 09:22 PM Re: SOME BOOKS THAT YOU MAY FIND TO YOUR LIKING.
Aggie Offline
Member

Registered: 02/09/01
Posts: 7
Gentlemen,

Here's another title you both may want to look into: ABUSED BOYS by Mic Hunter. It just came out in paperback.

I read this, maybe 6 months ago, or less. It was very good.

I read Male On Male Rape about 2 months ago. And I thought it was excellent. Since, I work with parolees, men who've been incarcerated, I found the section on prison rape very helpful, although it wasn't nearly as lenghty and in depth as I would have liked.


Top
#74286 - 02/10/01 07:55 AM Re: SOME BOOKS THAT YOU MAY FIND TO YOUR LIKING.
Gadzook Offline
Member

Registered: 12/10/00
Posts: 72
Loc: Papillion, NEBRASKA (USA)
I shall look into this book -thank you very much!
GADZOOK (dave)
**********************


Here's another title you both may want to look into: ABUSED BOYS by Mic Hunter. It just came out in paperback.

I read this, maybe 6 months ago, or less. It was very good.

I read Male On Male Rape about 2 months ago. And I thought it was excellent. Since, I work with parolees, men who've been incarcerated, I found the section on prison rape very helpful, although it wasn't nearly as lenghty and in depth as I would have liked.
[/B][/QUOTE]

_________________________
~Gadzook

Top
#74287 - 02/12/01 03:57 AM Re: SOME BOOKS THAT YOU MAY FIND TO YOUR LIKING.
Neil Offline
Member

Registered: 10/17/00
Posts: 81
Loc: Millersville, MD, USA
Aggie......Thanks for the tip on ABUSED BOYS. I will check it out


Top
#74288 - 02/12/01 03:58 AM Re: SOME BOOKS THAT YOU MAY FIND TO YOUR LIKING.
Neil Offline
Member

Registered: 10/17/00
Posts: 81
Loc: Millersville, MD, USA
Aggie......Thanks for the tip on ABUSED BOYS. I will check it out


Top
#74289 - 02/12/01 09:03 PM Re: SOME BOOKS THAT YOU MAY FIND TO YOUR LIKING.
Aggie Offline
Member

Registered: 02/09/01
Posts: 7
Anything to help, Neil.

Anything in particular that I should be aware of?


Top
#74290 - 02/23/01 07:08 PM Re: SOME BOOKS THAT YOU MAY FIND TO YOUR LIKING.
Ken Singer, LCSW Offline
Moderator Emeritus
MaleSurvivor

Registered: 08/24/00
Posts: 5778
Loc: Lambertville, NJ USA
I'd like to recommend "In my father's arms" by Walter DeMilly. It is very well written and has a good flow that does not just deal with pain. It has a good feel for recovery from incestuous abuse with a good range of anger to acceptance/healing that you don't see that often in male survivor literature.
Ken Singer


Top
#74291 - 02/24/01 06:59 AM Re: SOME BOOKS THAT YOU MAY FIND TO YOUR LIKING.
Neil Offline
Member

Registered: 10/17/00
Posts: 81
Loc: Millersville, MD, USA
THANKS KEN......I'VE NEVER HEARD OF THAT BOOK BUT I'LL DEFINATELY CHECK IT OUT.


Top
Page 1 of 2 1 2 >


Moderator:  ModTeam, TJ jeff 

I agree that my access and use of the MaleSurvivor discussion forums and chat room is subject to the terms of this Agreement. AND the sole discretion of MaleSurvivor.
I agree that my use of MaleSurvivor resources are AT-WILL, and that my posting privileges may be terminated at any time, and for any reason by MaleSurvivor.