oh please find a playpen - it is much more fun ...

you have the power to create a likeable structure in your life - in your personal life - whatever -

if you like to puzzle on things - do that

but make don't loose your way in rumination like i have -

now i know what i like - i have a nice bf who dominates me and i love it -

and i still have power over my professional life -

happy as a clam here ---
and not totally submissive
and more able to ..boogie

hope it lasts ----
m

Mark it will if you continue to be who you are and proud of that fact. You are a good and decent man and that is that.

I love your idea of a playpen... it is a concept I have not allowed myself. Thank you!