No, that's very good.
At the end of the day, you are a good, decent man. Everything else, well, does that really count? Maybe in the minds of small-minded people, but I can tell you, at least NOT with me.
Your self-esteem shouldn't be decided by democracy. It's a dictatorship, and nobody else's vote matters except YOURS.
But if I may again offer my humble opinion (of course I may. I am! :p ) you are the kind of man I want to be. The kind I try to be.
Peace and love,
P.S. Did you find the "Scotism" that I put in here unconsciously? :rolleyes: )