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#72300 - 03/21/04 10:32 AM interesting
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i am realizing that the ideal of a huge sex life for me has been a confusion between wanting a lot of the love and affection (in all senses)

vs.

a cohesive life -

it's hard to express in any other terms than my own but when i meet the right guy all of that will be a part of it - i will have my life and i do not need to run around endangering my self in sex that i don't want - i mean i may want it but it would n't be confused with something more -

make sense? -

although i find hooking up - i find hasn't really worked for me -

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#72301 - 03/21/04 03:47 PM Re: interesting
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in a sense what i mean to say is that sex and love are different and in knowing this i can be a better lover -

it's a great solace -

m

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#72302 - 03/21/04 04:45 PM Re: interesting
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That is so true. There is a big difference betwwen the to. I can have sex with anyone and it may not mean anything but if i love someone it is a totally different ball game. I hope you find that special person as I have. Take care of yourself. Be safe in all that you do.
Gus

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#72303 - 03/21/04 05:54 PM Re: interesting
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and i have realized - if you the sex life is nourtured - the sex with the man you love becomes
better and better -

in fact it can become too much - as it has for me -

:-) - whoooa

but it can be a really wonderful thing - intense

you get to let your guard down in different ways as the relationship grows and this is just one of them -

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#72304 - 03/22/04 03:06 AM Re: interesting
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Very true except i can never get enough lol.
Gus

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#72305 - 03/22/04 10:13 AM Re: interesting
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who said anything about -- stopping - :-)

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#72306 - 03/22/04 06:15 PM Re: interesting
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Mark,

I've had sex without love, and I've had love without sex.

I think I prefer the latter, because sex without love is like cake without the icing. Good, but not as satisfying as something that can make it FRICKING GREAT!

Leave it to me to equate sex with food! \:D

Peace and love, Mark,

Scot

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#72307 - 03/22/04 06:30 PM Re: interesting
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Scot- I hear you - I think we are thinking similar thoughts - though on different tangents -

I'd agree with you -

then again - the two in the best of all possible
worlds can be really worth the long, long, long,
god too long,...

wait:-)
(jk)

peace to you Scot!

Mark

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