I in my early 30's and in a steady relationship with a great guy, but sex has been getting harder.
I used to have real trouble with phasing out during sex and going rigid. That is better after a few years therapy. I seemed to be making real progress and starting to relax during sex.I stopped therapy as I wasn't getting depressed anymore and also needed to save the money. Now i'm not sure.
Now I am finding it hard again. Its not the same but I am finding it hard to get interested.
I've always been troubled by extreme sexual fantasies where I'm the victim. They are still about and are the easiest way for me to get turned on, but I masturbate much less.
I seem to becoming asexual. What's going on?
I'm with a great guy. He is pretty understanding, but what sort of relationship s it without sex. he needs sex and I'm afraid of what it is doing to him.
Has anyone else been through this? Does it get any better or do I have to accept that sex and me don't mix.