I just want to "second" the comments from "Rabbit" above. You're always in charge of what and how much to disclose and share about your own story. Most of us, I think, "scope out" the scene for awhile before jumping in. Once you decide to take the plunge, I think you'll find support, healing and brotherhood in this very special place.
"We are only two and yet our howling can encircle the world's end.
Frightened, you are my only friend.
And frightened we are, every one.
Someone must take a stand -- Coward, take my coward's hand"