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#69133 - 08/15/05 07:43 PM im new
baddawg Offline
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Registered: 08/15/05
Posts: 5
Loc: East coast
hi, im new
im joel, 20 yrs old
im not sure what to say, i never
done this before. i could use
somebody to talk to about
all this if anyone cares or
has the time...
thanks


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#69134 - 08/16/05 12:36 AM Re: im new
Mike Church Offline
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Registered: 01/23/03
Posts: 3439
Loc: Toronto, Canada
Joel I am sorry for what has brought you to us but am glad that you are here.

Feel free to talk, pm someone, read and post. There is not judgement here only a bunch of guys dealing with SA and learning to live life as we were meant to.

Welcome to MS

_________________________
Mikey

IT REALLY IS OK TO STUMBLE. NONE OF US ARE PERFECT.

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#69136 - 08/16/05 03:20 PM Re: im new
chuck Offline
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Registered: 04/30/03
Posts: 97
Loc: mid atlantic
Joel,
Welcome to the site and what you want to say is important. That is part of the problem many of us deal with, that our feelings and emotions were not important during the abuse. Now it is difficult to express them for fear we will be judge about what happened to us. None of us wanted to be abused and we did not do the abuse. The abusers who harmed us are the ones who committed these acts against us. We need to express our questions so we can begin our recovery otherwise the abusers still have power over us. So don't be afraid we all started out scared and uncertain thinking that we would be judged harshly.

Chuck


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