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#69126 - 08/12/05 12:43 AM incest
stephan Offline
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Registered: 08/11/05
Posts: 9
Loc: Westchester County, Nw York
Would like to be in contact with gay men who were sexually abused by their fathers. I've started therapy again around this issue although I thought I had finished my work on it earlier on. It just reared its ugly head again.

#69127 - 08/13/05 01:54 AM Re: incest
Rustam Offline

Registered: 10/27/04
Posts: 473
Loc: UK
Hi Stephan,

I was abused by my father I am in the UK but you are welcome to p.m. me. I find that I can relate to lots of what is posted here, gay or not and regardless of what relationship guys had with the abusers. The trauma and effects seem very similar. I did therapy some years ago and thought I had dealt with enough of this, it came back up again for me last year so Iím back in therapy.

Welcome to the site,


#69128 - 08/13/05 01:36 PM Re: incest
sophiesdad Offline

Registered: 04/30/05
Posts: 462
Loc: Florida
Hello, Stephan,

You can also PM me if you wish. My abuser was not my father... my mother had made me her surrogate "husband" and the incest that I went through was psychological and emotional incest. There are many similarities with incest regardless of which gender it was and if I can be of any help, please let me know.


There are no unresolved issues - they just didn't resolve themselves the way we would have liked. "Grinder and Bandler - Neuro-Linguistic Programming"

#69129 - 08/16/05 03:07 PM Re: incest
chuck Offline

Registered: 04/30/03
Posts: 97
Loc: mid atlantic

Welcome to the site and sorry to read why you are here. My father was my abuser and my mother was in denial as a result she refused to acknowledge what was happening to me. My abuse by my father was a long term expereience and I have been therapy since 2002. As you can imagine I have lots of issues with both of them and with myself. If you would like to p.m. me I can give you more information to assist you.



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