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#69095 - 08/09/05 01:25 AM Re: Honey, I'm home! Is dinner on the table yet?
blueelectron9 Offline
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Registered: 11/07/02
Posts: 387
Loc: Victoria, BC Canada
Welcome back, Jasper.

(((SMOOCH)))

P.S. The chocolates were great! Thanks!

-Scotty

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#69096 - 08/09/05 11:09 AM Re: Honey, I'm home! Is dinner on the table yet?
Rustam Offline
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Registered: 10/27/04
Posts: 470
Loc: UK
Yeah welcome home Jasper
Great chocolates
Peter


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#69097 - 08/09/05 11:30 AM Re: Honey, I'm home! Is dinner on the table yet?
RockyMtJoe Offline
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Registered: 08/11/04
Posts: 97
Loc: East of Pueblo, Colorado
Gad!
I have been so busy with "life"
I just noticed you were away for a while!

Just read your PM this morning!

Will PM or email when I wake up as it is about a bit after 4 AM here..

CyberHug with a pat on your......

RockyMt Joe


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#69099 - 08/09/05 03:06 PM Re: Honey, I'm home! Is dinner on the table yet?
Mike Church Offline
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Registered: 01/23/03
Posts: 3439
Loc: Toronto, Canada
The Cat Jasper the Cat!!

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IT REALLY IS OK TO STUMBLE. NONE OF US ARE PERFECT.

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#69102 - 08/09/05 07:23 PM Re: Honey, I'm home! Is dinner on the table yet?
Mike Church Offline
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Registered: 01/23/03
Posts: 3439
Loc: Toronto, Canada
Way to go Jasper.

There are good people in the world, even in families.

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IT REALLY IS OK TO STUMBLE. NONE OF US ARE PERFECT.

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#69105 - 08/09/05 11:49 PM Re: Honey, I'm home! Is dinner on the table yet?
blueelectron9 Offline
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Registered: 11/07/02
Posts: 387
Loc: Victoria, BC Canada
Jasper, I've pretty much had to let my whole family go for now, but not because they mock my memories but because they stimulate my memories. Everyone in my family has been hurt in some way or another and we're all trying to lick our wounds the best ways we know how. I find that distance from them is the best way for me to heal.

Best,
Scotty

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#69107 - 08/10/05 12:39 PM Re: Honey, I'm home! Is dinner on the table yet?
Rustam Offline
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Registered: 10/27/04
Posts: 470
Loc: UK
Hi Jasper,

I havenít seen most of my family in 15 years, being good Irish catholics there are a lot of us. It was their choice but even if they had chosen to see me I would have had to keep them at a safe distance. They refuse to accept what went on in our family and are angry and hurt about being faced with a truth that they find too painful to accept. I was contacted by one brother a year and a half ago and have met him about four times, that is going okay we have agreed not to talk about the abuse at his request, though stepping around it isnít always easy. He both wants and doesnít want to face the truth, he is bipolar and anything that comes too close to the truth sends him off.

The loss for me was like death but death would have been easier and more natural.

I am glad you have one supportive brother, as for Paulie do whatever feels right for you, for me sibling bonds run very deep and are not so easily broken even if I never see them again. I know how hurtful it is not to be believed and how strange the grief is around loosing someone who is alive but we have to let go.

Peter.


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#69109 - 08/11/05 04:12 AM Re: Honey, I'm home! Is dinner on the table yet?
lostcowboy Offline
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Registered: 11/10/04
Posts: 797
Loc: North Texas
Hey Jasper, glad you are back!

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