My wife actually registered here, and I took some stuff to the Members' forums that I didn't want to deal with in front of her.
She doesn't come around much, though, so I'm not as worried about it. And there's nothing in this thread she hasn't heard me say.
I can't answer Faith's question with words. Who can define love? I tried to describe some of the actions I use to express love to my wife.
And without fail, everytime I try to talk about how good things are between us, I get hit upside the head with how much remains to be done. Things aren't all peaches and cream these days, to say the least.
I'm going to shut up more quickly this time.