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#65347 - 10/01/06 04:58 AM .
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#65348 - 10/01/06 05:51 PM Re: care package for him
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Indy,

I think the key here will be your letter. That will help him to tie it all together with the sentiments that underlie what you are leaving for him. I personally think he needs to read that while you care for him, still love him and hope things can be worked out, you cannot under any circumstances agree to become the abuser's latest victim.

I think the books are a good idea. But again - tie it all together in your letter. Let him know that solutions are possible and you have even provided him with some of the most important literature he can read. Now it's all up to him. What does he want from life?

Much love,
Larry

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Nobody living can ever stop me
As I go walking my freedom highway.
Nobody living can make me turn back:
This land was made for you and me.
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#65349 - 10/01/06 08:30 PM Re: care package for him
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indy, I wish you the best. Your b/f is lucky to have you if even for just a friend. You are so caring in the things you packed for him. Please keep in touch.

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It were better for him that a millstone were hanged around his neck, and he cast into the sea, than that he should offend one of these little ones.
Luke 17:2

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#65350 - 10/02/06 11:54 AM .
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#65351 - 10/02/06 03:40 PM Re: care package for him
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#65352 - 10/05/06 04:02 AM .
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