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#64267 - 08/28/06 11:52 PM
Re: Men without dads
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Originally posted by Trevor:
u
know? Ummm,,,,,yeah. I do.
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#64268 - 08/29/06 12:14 AM
Re: Men without dads
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Trev,
You don't sound like an asshole at all, and of course it bothers you a lot. But listen up a minute. Okay, your natural father took off and abandoned you and your step-father hates you - that really sucks. But...that doesn't mean that you are unwanted or unimportant. It just means that these two guys are assholes. You DO matter, and you ARE important.
Much love,
Larry
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#64269 - 08/29/06 01:55 AM
Re: Men without dads
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trev its better to be pissed off than to be pissed on !!lol its ok to be pissed,its natural to be pissed,who wouldnt be pissed ?i get pissed everytime i think about my dad .i agree with larry you been surrounded by assholes ,but that dont make you one ! adam
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#64270 - 08/29/06 12:20 PM
Re: Men without dads
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it dont mean that
im unwanted but it
feels that way
thx for sayin im'
not an asshole
adam nether ru
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#64271 - 08/29/06 12:27 PM
Re: Men without dads
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Trev,
That's exactly it. We can "know" that a feeling we have isn't true, but that doesn't stop it from hurting. You have every right to feel hurt - you HAVE been hurt.
The thing to remember is that the reasons you have been hurt have to do with the failings and flaws of others, NOT with you.
Much love,
Larry
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#64272 - 08/29/06 12:49 PM
Re: Men without dads
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i could argu about
that but i
wont
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#64273 - 08/29/06 04:21 PM
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Trev,
I think you should. That's what the DB is for. Say what you think and let's see where it goes.
Much love,
Larry
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Nobody living can make me turn back:
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#64274 - 08/29/06 05:09 PM
Re: Men without dads
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i dont hav any rite to
feel any way about
anything. im just lucky
to be alive an thats
it. and im the one
w flaws im the one whos
fucking stupid
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#64275 - 08/29/06 05:16 PM
Re: Men without dads
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Trev,
Lucky to be alive, sure, I bet that's true. But what about the rest? What flaws do you think you have? What is it that makes you stupid?
L.
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#64276 - 08/29/06 05:18 PM
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Loc: Rhode Island
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just cant do anything rite
who would wanta son like
me who cant do anythinng rite
just good for a fuck
thats all
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