come on in, the waters ok.
I'm sorry you are having to deal with your husbands SA at all, but this is a good place to come for support and advice - for both of you if that feels right.
There's a lot of good caring guys here who are first hand experts, and some other partners who can offer help as well.
Don't be afraid to ask us ANYTHING, someone usually has an answer.
It's not an easy journey from victim to survivor, and we need all the help we can get from our loved ones, and it's great that you care enough to come looking for help.
Be strong Cris.
Go confidently in the direction of your dreams! Live the life you've imagined. As you simplify your life, the laws of the universe will be simpler.
Henry David Thoreau