Thanks so much for that, I like coming onto this forum and trying to help.
I know from experience how much difference support and understanding means to us survivors.
And I'm lucky that my wife gives me that totally.
But I have seen, and she's told me a bit, of how my struggles and my past affect her.
And that hurts me a lot. To think that 'they' affected not just my life but her innocent life as well infuriates me.
So I appreciate all her help, and if I can return that help to her - or you and the other survivors partners, then I'll try my best.