Thanks for the info, I am trying to do the research and haven't had much luck in finding ways that I could be sure. All the research is also making me sick to my stomach.
My family keeps saying that it is awful to make an accusation with no proof.
How do I get proof?
Now she has told my nephew that his "aunt" is trying to take him away from them.
What if I'm wrong?
I was just informed by my sister that her husband has talked to a lawyer about suing me for slander.
Meanwhile, my nephew has been labeled a "child molester" by kids on the street and I'm concerned of what will happen when he starts his new school in Sept.
I feel wrong and everyone in my family is trying to tell me that I can't accuse my brother-in-law with these things with no proof. Now I think he will just be smarter about it and don't think I will ever get proof. They say I can't say this about someone because of little incidences and a "gut" feeling. I feel so strongly about this, I don't know what's going on, but I think something is terribly wrong.
I have not allowed my children around this man for years and now I feel bad for my nephew. "What things they must be saying to him....now, if something was going on, how could he say something now" I feel like I've ruined any chance of getting real proof, not to mention, losing my sister and nephews.
Thanks for the reply and the advice.