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#61183 - 12/17/00 07:41 AM relationship help?????
healing1 Offline
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Registered: 12/17/00
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Loc: charlotte, n.c.
thanks

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#61184 - 12/17/00 11:23 AM Re: relationship help?????
Shelby Offline
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Registered: 11/27/00
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Loc: Littleton,CO USA
Dear Healing,

I am on the other side of your story, my husband was abused as a teen-ager and I just found out a couple of months ago. He had never told anyone until now, but it has started to affect our relationship so he came clean with me. What happened to you in your past was out of your control and you shouldn't feel ashamed. We all have past baggage that we have and our partners need to accept us for who we are, all the goods and the bads. I hope that you will be able to work things out.

Shelby


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#61185 - 12/18/00 04:43 AM Re: relationship help?????
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Registered: 11/08/00
Posts: 21
Dear Healing,
I am married to a survivor, am a mother to a survivor, and am a survivor myself. Some people can handle the baggage, some unfortunately cannot. My heart goes out to you. We need.... to let our secrets out, and we need supportive people around us. We are whole, what was stolen from us was not of our own violition. The same woman that stole my husbands childhood also molested my stepson. We go today to CPS over it. My Husband is a nervous wreck. I know it seems so unfair that not only did you have to live thru the abuse now you have to feel inferior to those who didn't. Take care of yourself and surround yourself with loving, caring, people. She might be too young, or immature to handle it. Best wishes Jenni


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