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#59045 - 12/02/05 12:01 AM Re: What a lie to tell
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somewhere on the Male Survivor forum is a list of lies, it's a very very long list as well.


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#59046 - 12/03/05 02:01 PM Re: What a lie to tell

Registered: 09/23/05
Posts: 178
Thanks to everyone who responded to this.

I think one of the reasons its upset me so much is that when all else fails, ie; keeping homelife calm, listening, smiling, holding him, telling the truth about the man I really see and not the one he thinks he is.. when all this fails, and sometimes it does, and this beautiful warm and intelligent man retreats into himself, I simply tell him I love him.

I recognise that this is more about me and one of MY coping mechanisms at risk.

Whilst its left me feeling a bit defeated its good to realise that if this is the case actually those three words won't be any loss to him.

On a humerous side he's been trying, without any remote success, to get me to tell him "You are my lord and master" for years. I might even indulge him just once or twice. :-) :-)

I've found something in each of the above posts, too much to quote, but thanks again for the support.



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