I'm tall, but as for the rest :rolleyes:
I have his permission to share here but i think this site is about you guys and not primarily about us as lovers and allies.
I think you're wrong there, yes, the site is called Male Survivor and it's aim is to help men overcome the effects of their chilhood sexual abuse.
But you're doing exactly the same thing with your fella, you're helping him in every way you know how, and you're learning new ways as fast as you can.
It's a common goal, you have just as much importance to 'your survivor' as this site has to any of us, don't ever feel like a second class citizen because you, and the other partners, aren't. To us you're everything and more.
But do we show our appreciation? Often we don't.
Many of us still haven't got the hang of showing out love and appreciation to our partners, which is desperately sad when we seem to know what we'd like to do, but we're still scared of actually doing it.