how & what did you learn from it
I'm doing the learning right now. I trusted the woman who kept my then five year old son away from me for two months this summer. What I think I will have learned, again, is to trust my intuition. I look back and see warning signs that I deliberately refused to heed earlier in the relationship. I'm glad to have my kids, but beyond that, being with that woman was not healthy for me.
did what you learned about trusting the WRONG people eventually teach you how to trust the RIGHT people?
I hope so. Someday we'll see, le cuicdiú Dé