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#57861 - 02/13/04 01:25 PM Pressing charges
Caetel Offline
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Registered: 11/05/03
Posts: 322
Loc: Paris, France
Just to let you know that in order to protect my little niece I have called 119 (a National telephone line for abused children in France).
They are organizing a file so that an enquiry will be made to verify whether or not my niece has been abused.
I can't go to court myself because of the "pre>
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#57862 - 02/13/04 02:03 PM Re: Pressing charges
kolisha54 Offline
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Registered: 12/02/03
Posts: 475
Loc: Brooklyn, NY
BRAVA!!!!

You are very brave!!!

You have broken the cycle!!!!

Hugs!

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If I am not for myself, who will be for me? If I am only for myself, what am I? If not now... when? --Hillel

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#57863 - 02/13/04 05:22 PM Re: Pressing charges
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Registered: 09/24/03
Posts: 2154
Loc: Massachusetts
You are very brave, and I am VERY proud of you.

You stopped the abuse, and you took back a part of yourself, your power.

I am happy for you. You're a hero!

Peace and love,

Scot

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#57864 - 02/14/04 01:32 AM Re: Pressing charges
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Registered: 02/08/03
Posts: 131
Loc: St. Charles, Illinois
Heroine!

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"Had I not fallen, I could not have arisen; had I not sat in darkness, I would not have recognized the light." Midrash Tehillim Ch. 22

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#57865 - 02/14/04 03:58 PM Re: Pressing charges
theo Offline
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Registered: 09/28/03
Posts: 1117
caro,
that took courage of a special kind that few are blessed with. i am honored to know one such as you and consider your friendship a blessing in so many ways. it is okay that things have been really hectic and that you have not been able to respond as you normally would. i am just glad that with everything that has been going on in your life and that of your niece that you have still been able to reach out as you have. i am here whenever you are able to write, and don't worry about the time frame. just toss in a few words now and then as you have been doing to let us know you are okay. take care, mon amie.

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journey well,
theo dewolfe

- It is gift, and gift will find its way
- I inherit through my choice. I build through my affirmation. It is through my freedom that I nurture, or fade into autonomy
- I was not given to serve life, but to embrace it

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#57866 - 02/14/04 09:52 PM Re: Pressing charges
RICK57 Offline
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Registered: 12/31/03
Posts: 1611
Loc: ENGLAND
Caetel...thank you - for once I am speechless..let the sun shine stronger...Rik

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#57867 - 02/23/04 12:01 PM Re: Pressing charges
Caetel Offline
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Registered: 11/05/03
Posts: 322
Loc: Paris, France
I have finally written that letter and I have sent it today. I can't believe I have just denounced my own father.
I have been triggered a lot lately, I am still very very scared, I feel like I have just thrown a bomb. I don't think I would have done it for myself but for my niece there was no turning back.
I miss V, I miss him so much and I want to feel protected in his arms again.
Thank you for your support, it meant a lot to help me get through this.
Love
Caro

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#57868 - 02/23/04 12:30 PM Re: Pressing charges
kolisha54 Offline
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Registered: 12/02/03
Posts: 475
Loc: Brooklyn, NY
Just hang in there!!!

You are a tower of strength, a true leader, and your neice is blessed to have you looking after her!!!

PM me if you need me!

BIG HUG!!!

:J

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#57869 - 02/23/04 07:48 PM Re: Pressing charges
RICK57 Offline
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Registered: 12/31/03
Posts: 1611
Loc: ENGLAND
Caro -

You really have done something positive here... if you need arms around you, I am in England UK & Kolisha is in New York USA. Kolisha & myself can join our hands together across the miles and you will be between them in France (Kolisha I hope you have long arms). I am sure that everyone else here will join in giving you that big hug - feel the warmth from us all.

Stay strong and best wishes ...Rik

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*I was seeking a way of expressing my anger - I found hope!
*There are many battles before the war is won! It can be won!

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#57870 - 02/23/04 08:59 PM Re: Pressing charges
kolisha54 Offline
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Registered: 12/02/03
Posts: 475
Loc: Brooklyn, NY
Hi Rik!

Hope you are not too disappointed - nothing about me, including arms, is BIG!!!

But my concern & admiration for Caro is ENORMOUS!!!!

Between the 2 of us, we have the beginnings of a Caro Fan Club: maybe your experiences from your former music career will help us put it together????

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