Dear all !
In my previous post "the worse was yet to come" I told you about V's trying to sabotage our relationship and having an affair with a girl we know.
Lately, I have met a nice guy through "msn dates". I had put up my photo in Sept. just for fun after breaking up with V. I did not bother to erae it after a while. Anyway, this guy, R. saw my picture and picked me because he thought I am sexy ! lol ! And well, he is a survivor too ! He only recently started to deal with the memories so I helped him a lot. Through me he discovered http://www.inceste.org
and he came to our usual Saturday evening reunions last week. I kind of suspected he was falling in love with me and it seems that he did ! He clearly showed he liked me and that he was around me. V looked very uncomfortable because he feels ashamed of what he has done but also clearly because I was with someone else.
Today I got confirmation of what I supsected. He is very jealous of R. (he told a friend) and he thinks R is very good looking. I told R that there is NO way I could fall in love with him and I did not want him to act like we were in love. He said we are just friends but I don't believe him. My only concern is for V right now.
I am happy in a way because V's jealousy shows me that he cares but I don't really know what to do or not do to reassure him. Sometimes I think he needed that kick in the but but I don't know if he is confident enough to deal with it and make a move towards me.
I'd like to have your opinion about this. I would be especially interested to have the opinion of the guys here about this kind of jealousy (because he clearly did not expect me to be jealous of the girl he slept with and since he said he has no feelings for me and we have broken up why should he care anyway ?).
Please help with your comments. I am anxious to know. All I could do yesterday was to reply to a request he had on the website; He was looking for a place where to use a computer and the internet for free. I told him he could come to my place while I am at work and I would give him a set of keys to get in.
What do you think ?
Thank you !