So sorry to hear that you're not feeling well, but it's very understandable. You've been through the worst of it - "letting out the secret". Now the healing can begin. There will be good and bad days and all of you will go thru a flood of emotions. Just make sure that you all give yourselves a "break" each day to do something simple, but enjoyable. At least for me, it's better when I stay active - it provides little "distractions" throughout the day rather than dwelling on the feelings.
Keep writing - we're here to support you.
There are no unresolved issues - they just didn't resolve themselves the way we would have liked. "Grinder and Bandler - Neuro-Linguistic Programming"