I'm so sorry that my post to your wife caused so much distress to you both, it's never my intention to put doubt where none exists.
I've read back through the various postings and I think I know the one you mean, and it could have been said better.
I hope you both continue to come here for support, I know how much I get from being here, and the Family & Friends forum is one of my main sources of support.
Knowing how other partners feel, and discussing aspects of our difficult relationships help's me with mine.
I understand your anger, and I accept your apology completly, as I hope you accept mine for not being more careful.
The whole subject of SA and our problems is a difficult area, and when we post we don't have the benefit of the instant reaction from the other person so mistakes can't be explained right then.
Go confidently in the direction of your dreams! Live the life you've imagined. As you simplify your life, the laws of the universe will be simpler.
Henry David Thoreau