Just to add - last year over Christmas / New Year, hardly anyone could get a word out of me. This year I couldn't shut up - New years day being the best example - I went to my sisters for a late lunch/evening meal with my Sister, Brother-in-Law & Niece. It was only supposed to be for a couple of hours, but turned into 7 & a half - we also consumed quite a bit of nice wine in that time. It's probably the best conversation I've had with my Brother-in-Law since before he married my sister about 28 years ago (he got drunk on my home brew that time - I used to make some good stuff - haven't made it for years).
Yes it's getting better - next year I suppose they will all be wearing ear plugs!
The whole point of this post is to give hope to others who despair of ever escaping from the pit - it takes a lot of hard work & it will never be 100% good, but come on you can all progress & you deserve to!
Best wishes again...love you all ..Rik
*Never look down on anybody unless you're helping them up.
*I was seeking a way of expressing my anger - I found hope!
*There are many battles before the war is won! It can be won!