You're at the begining of a hard road, but you're doing the right things and making the road easier.
Stick with the therapy, and work at it as much as you can. Come here and talk, ask questions and enjoy the support.
Keep in contact with your wife and let her see the improvements you make, always show you're positive and getting better. It's a load more work to do I know, but one of the first things my T said to me was "this isn't going to be easy" and he wasn't telling no lies, but he didn't say it was impossible either