If the issue is dissociation, I've got to admit that it's not my area of expertise. We may have a resource around here. Mr. Don, the male issues editor for VOICES, may be familiar or be able to get some input from the dissociation editor there, Jan (can't recall her last name). Maybe she could give you (and others interested in dissociation) some info about dissociation.
Mr. Don, if you're reading this, perhaps a guest posting on the MS website might be helpful and do a little bridging/sharing between our organizations? If she's willing to do an article for us, perhaps we can do something for VOICES in the future.
Always interested in networking to help share info, because knowledge is power (and healing is about empowerment).
Blissfully retired after 35 years treating sexual abuse