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#52275 - 12/08/06 10:18 PM Why? Kids wont dare tell!
reality2k4 Offline
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An incident happened in my neighborhood with a father who molested his little girl.
Her name was kept from the public for her safety.

I heard it was his little girl and knew her, and the word got out from sources that should keep their f*ckin mouths shut.

I never told anybody what I heard, NO way.
But I saw her hurt and felt I could not help.
She started wearing pants and felt wary of men, even me, though she was OK not so long ago.

Nightmare scenario for the little girl, and her family had to move.
Its always the kids who suffer :rolleyes:

ste

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#52276 - 12/08/06 11:42 PM Re: Why? Kids wont dare tell!
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Quote:
Originally posted by reality2k4:

I heard it was his little girl and knew her, and the word got out from sources that should keep their f*ckin mouths shut.
I'm not sure what you mean by this.

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#52277 - 12/09/06 02:17 AM Re: Why? Kids wont dare tell!
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Who should keep their mouths shut? Silence is the very thing that allowed the abuse to continue. That little girl has nothing to be ashamed of. However, the father should have a big f''king tattoo that says "pedophile" put on his head.

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#52278 - 12/09/06 02:40 AM Re: Why? Kids wont dare tell!
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i think he is saying that some people knew the girl was the one that got abused and told about it, so now everyone knows.

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#52279 - 12/09/06 05:38 AM Re: Why? Kids wont dare tell!
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Ah, I see. In that case, yes I can see all kinds of things wrong with the public disclosure of such information.

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#52280 - 12/09/06 09:12 AM Re: Why? Kids wont dare tell!
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Please explain Melliferal.

Jason

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#52281 - 12/09/06 09:19 AM Re: Why? Kids wont dare tell!
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I was scared , thats why I cept my mouth shut for 30 years

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#52282 - 12/09/06 10:11 AM Re: Why? Kids wont dare tell!
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I knew the man was caught molesting a young girl.
By chance, somebody I met told me it was his little girl involved.

The source of the information was a good source, and I know where it came from, but WTF!
Who? Would disclose that sort of information to others!

I said my lips are sealed, and yes, nobody else got this from me.
I know the damage, but the little girls family had to run.

Its the worst nightmare for any kid, and that is why they dont tell, \:\(

ste

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#52283 - 12/09/06 11:44 AM Re: Why? Kids wont dare tell!
Kirk Wayne Offline
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Registered: 05/31/05
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Loc: Shrewsbury UK
Silence is the best weapon perps have sure worked with me, I was terrified that people would find out about my past, until I learnt different, today I have NO SHAME and will disclose to anyone for the sole purpose of educating them.

Kirk
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#52284 - 12/09/06 04:39 PM Re: Why? Kids wont dare tell!
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At least that little girl is having the issue resolved RIGHT NOW instead of waiting 30 years like many of us.

I remember when I was 9 years old, that if I told, the police would get involved, and I would have to tell my parents etc. "Umm gee he made me suck his dick and he tried to stick it inside me etc."

Who the hell wants to tell anyone about that stuff? It was mere embarassment that kept me silent. He never once asked me not to tell becuase he (he was that good) knew that I would not!

If I would have had ANY FUCKING CLUE about how what he did was going to effect me later in my life I WOULD HAVE TOLD! But my parents never fucking told me what to do if I was ever in this kind of situation so I had no effective tools to deal with it. I blame my parents just as much as my perps. They had no right to assume that the world is perfectly safe for a 9yo boy.


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