I'm very glad to hear that your daughter is ok. I'm sorry for all you are currently struggling through.
I'm just kind of talking out my ass here, but maybe almost-andrew may be on to something. Take a couple of days to just recharge and enjoy yourself. Do something you like just for you to rest up. It may seem that you are ignoring you're recovery work (at least it always does to me...) but recovery takes energy and it sounds like you need to recover some of yours...
I wish you all the best. Good luck.