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#52040 - 07/18/06 08:45 PM Re: jail
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i dont think so

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#52041 - 07/20/06 06:35 PM Re: jail
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Trev,

Okay. What is it you disagree with?

L.

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#52042 - 07/25/06 03:57 PM Re: jail
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u askd me if i could sit down and talk
w her and her husband to talk to them
2 gether. thats not gonna happen.

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#52043 - 07/26/06 01:09 AM Re: jail
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Trev,

Okay, gotcha. Well, if you aren't ready or you feel it wouldn't get you anywhere, then I see what you mean. But real local support - someone to talk to face-to-face and ask for help - is what every survivor needs.

Maybe this idea doesn't look so great now, but stick it in your back pocket for later.

Much love,
Larry

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#52044 - 07/26/06 01:24 PM Re: jail
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when i try an talk to her about it she
just gets all upset and then just wants to blow
it off like im making a big deal out of it or
like it wasnt as bad as i make it sound
or im just being to dramamtic an i know its
cuz she dont want to think her fathr or brotr
can do things like they did eithr that or
they did stuff to her to and she cant deal
with it. whatever. i cant talk to her husband
brad. hes nice enuff be as far as hes
concerned im just living there till im 18
and dont care about anything i haft to say
so long as i do my chores and dont upset
my stepsister. and me and him dont talk
much anyways. he hit me once when me and him
got in a bad fite and since then ive just
stayed away from him pretty much.
so i think it must be me. cuz it seems like
the people around me are only around me cuz
they hafto be and they have no problem
with hurting me. i dont know.

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#52045 - 07/26/06 04:32 PM Re: jail
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Trev,

No adult has the right to lay a hand on you, no matter how pissed he is. That's not just a matter of morality, it's the LAW!

That said, I can see that all this is an extremely high tension situation, and everyone is trying to learn how to relate and cope with it. There have to be clear boundaries, yes, but it must be very confusing and stressful for both Sarah and Brad.

But again, please don't blame yourself. You are the one who needs support and understanding.

Much love,
Larry

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Nobody living can ever stop me
As I go walking my freedom highway.
Nobody living can make me turn back:
This land was made for you and me.
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#52046 - 07/26/06 05:44 PM Re: jail
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Loc: Rhode Island
i dont blame myself for that

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