I agree South!! Thanks for pointing to Ethan's post, Dean!! I read this after posting to Ethan's post!! It is important to vent, let things out and ask for help. BUT it is also necessary to refocus on the positives as well. A saying I have is 'Don't tell me what you can't do BUT tell me what you can do'. I find if I stay on the negative mode too long, it is like sitting in the middle of the road waiting for a car to come by and clobber me
- and generally it does!
But after venting, I try to look around for what I can do...that gives me direction; focuses me up off the middle of the road and gives me something to do for myself - some way to go from here!
Sometimes, I come to this site and purposesly look for positives to encourage me!
They are here!
I'd like to encourage more though!!!
Thanks for posting guys!!!