I have felt a lot of anger that I misdirected, usually towards my wife, but I still don't feel much anger about what the perp did, what I lost, etc.
I do see people in a sexual way a lot more than I would like. I remember hugging my wife while she cried when her grandmother died and getting aroused and ashamed because of it. It seems there's a lot of "aroused and ashamed" in my life.
"Telemachos, your guest is no discredit to you. I wasted no time in stringing the bow, and I did not miss the mark. My strength is yet unbroken…"—The Odyssey, translated by W.H.D. Rouse