Hi Marc and Alan,
It is the sadness and tragic results of so much pain that result from being a victim of betrayal and violation that millions need to hear.
Scratch almost anyone deep enough and you will, I believe, still get the idea that when a boy or man is violated it is really not a true case of harmful abuse.
As hard as it is, we need to get editors and writters to hear some of these gut wrenching stories to dispell that fantasy. Thye problem, even there, is that so many folks, not wanting to have to confront reality, will say that guys who suffer a lot from SA, PROBABLY, had a pre-existing mental illness.
It feels like peeing in the ocean, but we need to keep peeing--preferably not in the ocean though.
If we do not live what we believe, then we will begin to believe what we live.