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#473445 - 12/12/14 06:42 PM PLEASE! pray for my family
victor-victim Offline


Registered: 09/27/03
Posts: 5213
Loc: O Kanada
my 8 year old cousin/niece is dead.
the police say she was murdered.
the mother has been charged.
my family is in shock.
i have no details.
don't really want to know.
a child is dead. that is enough for now.
will need some time to absorb and process.
still not feeling anything, thank god.
cried once.
my sister is crying lots.
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#473453 - 12/13/14 12:41 AM Re: pray for my family [Re: victor-victim]
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Registered: 09/16/13
Posts: 337
Loc: Surrey, United Kingdom
Dear Victor

My heart goes out to you and your family and I'm sending my love and support to you all in this awful time.

We maybe thousands of mile apart but you're all right here in my thoughts.

Take good care of yourself

David
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#473456 - 12/13/14 01:27 AM Re: pray for my family [Re: victor-victim]
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Registered: 06/04/14
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Loc: North of usa
Victor-victim

I'm truly sorry for your lose. I hope you find the answers you need to heal.

My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Ws

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#473462 - 12/13/14 08:57 AM Re: pray for my family [Re: tbkkfile]
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Registered: 09/27/03
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grateful.
thanks david.
kind words appreciated.

the suffering has only begun.
most of us are still wallowing
in the luxury of shock and denial.

like watching a bad dream on a video screen.
but this is a horror movie nightmare.

it feels wrong.
it feels bad.
it doesn't make sense.
so it can't be true.
but reality refuses to disappear
when the eyes are shut.
it doesn't vanish simply
because i deny it.
this ugly crime does not require my consent.
it is now historical fact that exists
whether i believe it or not.

powerless and pissed off.
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#473463 - 12/13/14 09:03 AM Re: pray for my family [Re: woodenshoes]
victor-victim Offline


Registered: 09/27/03
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thank you, ws.
much needed.
please pray for the parents.

pain is only a word.
reality is so much worse.

i wish i could do more for them.
i can only comfort those closest to me.
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#473469 - 12/13/14 10:14 AM Re: pray for my family [Re: victor-victim]
Still Offline
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Registered: 02/16/07
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Loc: FEMA Region 1
Such a dramatic shock and tragedy.

I grew up in a home that lost two of my sisters. One was a sudden accident (34yo), and the other, an aggressive 12-hour virus (3yo) and medical malpractice. Neither were a deliberate crime like your situation.

I cannot imagine the horror and pain in your family right now.

This sort of pain is far beyond the beyonds. You have my prayers.

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#473478 - 12/13/14 01:34 PM Re: pray for my family [Re: victor-victim]
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Registered: 08/22/10
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Loc: England (at the moment)
Praying. Terrible news. I'm distant too in miles....but praying.

CJ
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#473488 - 12/13/14 05:59 PM Re: pray for my family [Re: Still]
victor-victim Offline


Registered: 09/27/03
Posts: 5213
Loc: O Kanada
we, the family, have litlle or no clue if there has been a crime.
still waiting for facts and details and documents.
people directly involved are unavailable or in shock.
mourning has not even begun yet.
trying too hard not to talk about it,
we are mostly carrying on with busy schedules,
keeping life from unraveling in chaos.
a great feeling of impotence and collective guilt.
"what could i have done to predict and prevent this?"


thanks for your kind words, Still.
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#473491 - 12/13/14 06:11 PM Re: pray for my family [Re: CheerfulJohn]
victor-victim Offline


Registered: 09/27/03
Posts: 5213
Loc: O Kanada
thank you, CJ!

please pray for us.
no matter how far you are.


prayer knows not duration nor distance.
god created time and space,
we can experience eternal existence.
god gives his glory and grace.
we can feel his omnipresence.
gaze upon his loving face.
pray for wisdom, peace and patience.
god, forgive the human race.
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#473519 - 12/14/14 04:56 AM Re: pray for my family [Re: victor-victim]
victor-victim Offline


Registered: 09/27/03
Posts: 5213
Loc: O Kanada
had to start sorting out my thoughts and feelings.
as usual. i write them down in rhythm and rhyme all the time.
i think it helps me connect the dots.

posting them in poetry section...

http://www.malesurvivor.org/board/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=473496#Post473496
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