jpm, this is great news, and I'm so happy for you. I've also struggled with sexual dysfunction for 40 plus years, and have two failed marriages in my past to prove it.
Since finally facing my abuse head on this year, I've been able to experience uninhibited sex with my g/f. While there's an occasional setback and I'm still not always 100% "present" all the time, I'm getting better at staying in the present at all times, not just during lovemaking.
Here's to continued sexual health for you and everyone else that have had to deal with the cancer like effects of CSA. Never, ever, ever give up feeling good about yourself or your ability to trust.
"Clouds come floating into my life, no longer to carry rain or usher storm, but to add color to my sunset sky"- Rabindranath Tagore