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#468997 - 08/16/14 12:16 AM trigger alert- treated an adult male for rape
Tyr Offline
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Registered: 10/05/11
Posts: 180
Hey guys.

Working at my job and had someone come in with wounds on face and body and divulged he was raped.

Some of his conduct was strange but at least I treated him respectfully. He wanted to shower, and I encouraged him not to. He was unsure about getting an exam as the rapist allegedly used condoms. But I encouraged him that even still, other kinds of tissue evidence are available.

He went to the ER of the hospital but it was...a debacle. He made a scene and evidently got kicked out. He called me a few hours later and thanked me for treating me normally which was cool. I checked with a rape crisis counselor later and tried to preserve his choices which I did and got complimented. But it was WAY out of my scope and it didn't trigger me. But given that part of my harassment for reporting my rape is gang stalking related, it was terrible to say I wasn't sure if this was real or a drug addict being paid to just act and play a part (please research organized gang stalking and "street theatre" ).

Whether it was or was not I treated him fairly and kindly as I wished so many adults could have and would not treat me these last 3 years.

Tyr OUT
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#468999 - 08/16/14 12:47 AM Re: trigger alert- treated an adult male for rape [Re: Tyr]
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Registered: 06/06/12
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Loc: Ohio
Not sure what the job situation is, but sounded like you handled it well.

Hope the harassment of yourself you mentioned isn't something that is ongoing. That sounds troubling to deal with.

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#469000 - 08/16/14 01:27 AM Re: trigger alert- treated an adult male for rape [Re: Tyr]
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thank you kc. Yes it is. But I am trying to endure.
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#469004 - 08/16/14 03:09 AM Re: trigger alert- treated an adult male for rape [Re: Tyr]
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Registered: 09/27/03
Posts: 3310
Loc: O Kanada
a little kindness goes a long long way.
especially immediately following the trauma.
it makes me glad to hear how you handled yourself
in this horrible situation.
you didn't crack and you shared your strength and compassion.
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#469006 - 08/16/14 05:01 AM Re: trigger alert- treated an adult male for rape [Re: Tyr]
Tyr Offline
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Registered: 10/05/11
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thanks ;-)
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