Hey there guys. Hope I get more than 2 replies. Come on ... we need to really work harder at communicating our support for people that take risk to post here for healing. Its vital. Please. ...
That being said, I finally, got to listen to the reply to my attacker at his re-sentencing. I was allowed to have a letter read by the judge (he actually took time and read it... right there. )
This time, it was not a victim impact letter per se but it was allowed in without objection.
And the letter was powerful. The attacker read it as well and the DA shook his fist and was angry ... there were a lot of violations... serious ones.
My attacker's reply was ...regarding me.. "you'd think that some people would learn to forgive and forget and move on with their lives" "why is he focusing all this on me? Doesn't he remember there was another person there too?"
HOW DARE THAT LITTLE PRICK EXPECT FORGIVENESS WHEN HE NEVER ATTEMPTED TO APOLOGIZE... I EVEN ASKED HIS P.O. WOULD HE EVER CONSIDER AN APOLOGY LETTER. I was told that since he was not charged with what he did to me, there was no reason for him to do it.
So he basically admitted to it, after years of motions to suppress, delays and everything. Because why expect forgiveness if there was nothing that happened needed forgiveness?!
Then he went on and on about how he re-offended (looking at teenage boy porn evidently) because Obamacare wouldnt pay for his therapy appointments and other horse*(&*(&
The long and short was when he expected forgiveness for something and started going off on me, everyone's eyebrows arched and looked at me then him and the judge finally said among other priceless things.
"I don't think youre a monster... but you are a predator. And that you would use any tool you could to get a person to your place and do what you wanted to them whether they wanted it or not and thats a risk to all of us. "
I was thanked by the Judge and wished well, and the DA shook my hand and thanked me and said I was vindicated in every possible way.
Anyone who thinks this has to do with me, on the record it is refuted by HIS words.
I have grown the hell up and gotten my act together (mostly lol) and I have moved on with my life and continue to grow and enjoy the wonder of the world and how I can be and make it better.
AND FUCK YOU TO HIM
He was given a very long sentence