It sounds very hard for you right now, I am sorry all this happens. I do not know what to say or how to advice about the living arrangement, but I do hope that you find a better situation soon. As for your children, I think it is great, what you say! Yes, they did it, they are to face consequences of that action! That is what a good father does, to teach the right and wrong, not with violence or anger, but by setting the rules and enforce them. I hope that when things are over with them, life becomes less stressful for you. Wish I could tell you advise of what to do, but I do wish you best.
Avatar photo in memory of my younger brother Makar.
"Human salvation lies in the hands of the creatively maladjusted."~~~Martin Luther King Jr., 1963